Abstract: We all are in the relations of receiving and giving, and it is not asymmetry that receiving something from someone and giving something to some. Inthe network of relation of giving and receiving we have our common good and individual goods. And we should have the virtue of giving and receiving in the relationship.

Key words: the relationship of giving and receiving, common good, individual goods

摘要： 我们从出生到死亡都处在一种接受与给予的关系中,我们从谁那里接受和给予谁往往是不对称的。这是我们参与到这个网络中不得不懂得的。在这个接受与给予的关系中,有我们的共同利益和我们个人的利益。同时,处在这样一种关系中,也需要我们遵守相应的德性规则。

关键词: 接受与给予的关系, 共同利益, 个人利益