Abstract: In Song Dynasty, there appeared in choosing a spouse a trend which paid more consideration to wealth, prospects and character.This was a new idea of 'being matched for marriage'.And as far as the relationship of spouses was concerned, there existed a social phenomenon of 'virago',as a result,an appeal appeared that husband should be righteous and wife should be obedient to her partner.Moreover,there was a relative relaxed moral environment of divorce and remarriage of women at the same period. In sum,a conclusion can be drawn that the moral practice by Song Dynasty was a transition from one of pre-Song to post-Song,that is,Ming and Qing Dynasty.

Key words: being matched for marriage', virago, righteousness of husband, obedient, divorce, remarriage of women

摘要： 宋人的婚姻伦理道德生活在议亲观念上出现了重财、重科举官僚、重人品的新的“门当户对”取向;在夫妇之伦中出现了“悍妇”现象与“夫义妻顺”的呼吁;同时,宋人有着相对宽松的离婚与再嫁的道德环境。宋人的婚姻伦理道德生活表明其是从宋前的道德生活向明清时道德生活的过渡。

关键词: “门当户对”, 悍妇, 夫义, 柔顺, 离婚, 再嫁