关键词: 孝, 平等, 亲子关系, 养老模式

Abstract: “Feedback”and“Relay”are different upbringing patterns respectively in China and western countries. The difference of upbringing patterns reflects the difference of parent-child relationship. The reasons of the difference are the different development stage,different concept between east and west,etc. In the course of cultural intercommunication on parent-child relationship between east and west,we should not only carry forward such good traditions as respect the old and cherish the young,but also adopt such reasonable factor as fairness between parent and child in western countries,so that we can build up a harmonious society in which the old or young,male or female enjoy themselves together.

Key words: filial piety, fairness, parent-child relationship, upbringing patterns